Victorious Vida

ok, we're on a roll here...After getting a high from Harriet's 'self care' seminar last weekend, I had such an inspiring lunch yesterday with a woman who lives and breathes self confidence -- who else but my dear friend Vida. This is one lady who just has it all together, and who has never let anything faze her; I have always envied that kind of positive energy Vida radiates so naturally and which has made her successful in many areas - her career..her personal life.
By the way, she just got married and now has that honeymoon glow to boot!! (the sweetest, most romantic story -- Rolly her very devoted husband passed away in 2002. Somehow, in the process of keeping herself busy and picking up the pieces of her life, she and her very first sweetheart Aru from 40 years ago got together. He too had been widowed many years earlier. And so...boy courted girl once again. They fell in love, and then got married last month!!)So here I was having lunch with this lucky lucky lady, but then she made me realize it isn't really luck that we need in order to draw positive experiences to us. Vida has always had a very heightened sense of self worth (not like yours truly who most of the time enjoys wallowing in muck and self pity)... When you have self worth, you open yourself to receive blessings ...experiences and people who will do you good.. You filter out the bad stuff, the stuff you don't need, the hurtful things, the negative forces. You have a healthy outlook on life, an unwavering faith in God, and just forge ahead knowing only good things will happen. And they do!
Read or watch The Secret. I guess that's victorious Vida's secret...

http://www.thesecret.tv/home.html